Kāohi iho…self-control…be a super S.T.A.R. = Always Stop and Think before you Act and always Review.  How do you know you are being a super STAR?  You will see people smiling at you and saying nice words…if not, stop what you are doing/how you are acting and think…what should I be doing…how should I be acting.  Put on the brakes and practice Kāohi iho.   Tell me a time you practiced self-control and how did things work out for you…