Just like literacy is a source of strength for our keiki, so is knowing that Someone has loved them. Despite our efforts to protect our children from life’s plans and schemes, it’s inevitable that they’ll encounter some of the world’s difficult obstacles. When this happens we’d like them to have happy memories that they can wrap themselves around to get them through the rough spots. Author Esme Raji Codell provides “The Happy Childhood Checklist” from which I have highlighted some of my personal favorites:
- Ask your child about his or her day at the end of it.
- Tell stories about grandparents and the child’s family history.
- Read and discuss the newspaper in front of your child.
- Put notes in your child’s lunch.
- Make music with your child.
- Bring your child to work with you one day.
- Get your child a library card … and use it!
- Give thanks at mealtimes or bedtime.
- Cook with your child.
- Say yes sometimes when your child expects you to say no.
- Say you’re sorry when you make a mistake.
- Stay home from work when your child is sick.
- Listen to knock-knock jokes.
- Dance with your child standing on your feet.
- Tell your child that you’re proud of her and that you love her.
- Tell your child you love her even when you’re not proud.
- Read aloud to your child.
- Read aloud to your child.
- Did I mention you should read aloud to your child?